The first part of your reply I don't get. What does this mean "As far as seeing that the product rule is obvious I doubt that one can see it."? And my goal is to see things more clearly. Rely less on formulas and try to derive them myself. Basically less rote learning and more seeing things myself.
I also don't know if I need the most theoretical calculus book (by the way do you mean this book (
https://www.amazon.com/Calculus-Analytic-Geometry-George-Thomas/dp/0201531747 ). To me, it looks like a layer cake. I should build as many layers that they all connect and I can see the whole picture, but I need to get it too. If it all flows over my head then it is useless and I get nothing out of it.
Maybe I need a combination of Polya and something else to build those layers (as I am seeing the same problems pop up in physics).
Seeing that Calculus is basically needed for physics it is essential that I need to know that thoroughly first.
So I would start Calculus again and combine it with the Zill book. Or would you leave the Calculus book and go straight to Linear Algebra? My goal is to totally get (to my heart) Calculus, like the back of my hand, and also to know the physics I pointed out on the website.