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The straight-forward, succinct answer to your question? Ignorance. Hard to say whose.
The convention is as old as the notation (which isn't that old). As soon as mathematical expressions needed to be communicated and understood, we started to formulate conventions. Sometimes, different conventions developed in different areas at the same time!
The Wiki article is actually quite good:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Order_of_operations It mentions many of the things we have mentioned, here.
There are many such issues in our society. Here's just one example: How did we not know for so long that cigarettes killed people? Short answer? Many did, but some who did lied about it. This creates ignorance and confusion.
How can we get two answer from the same relatively-simple mathematical expression? We shouldn't, but we do. Life isn't perfect. You can talk to your local MP and get some statutes in place - maybe apologize to those of your generation who didn't learn the more accepted standard? On the other hand, maybe your teachers were underpaid and overworked and we should blame those who funded them.
Here in the US, back in the late 19th Century, the State of Indiana notoriously tried to LEGISLATE the value of PI to some convenient value with just a few decimal places. Fortunately, more sensible heads prevailed. Sometimes, like I said, straight up ignorance is the problem.
If you want a forum where you can get volunteers to go storm the palace and demand the confusion be repaired, that will be a harder search. You have been hearing the truth, here. You just don't like it as we don't seem to be outraged. Sadly, with years and years of experience, having addressed this issue literally thousands of times, it seems the problem will not go away anytime soon. Good luck on your crusade. Good work noticing the problem. Definitely kudos for that.
P.S. I once returned home to a group of seven (7) people faced with a much larger expression of just the type we have been discussing. EACH of the seven had gotten a different answer. They were VERY confused. How could there be SEVEN answers? They appealed to me to settle the dispute. I sat down and demonstrated the convention very clearly, one intermediate value at a time, and this resulted in an EIGHTH result. Guess what my seven guests did. They abandoned their consternation at the seven answers and accepted that the more authoritative source had demonstrated the proper procedure and had obtained the proper result. They put their shovels and pitchforks back in their cars and returned to their daily lives, having learned.