Just to clarify, the limit you're tasked with finding is this, correct?
\(\displaystyle \displaystyle \lim _{x\to A}\left(\frac{\frac{1}{x}-\frac{1}{A}}{x-A}\right)\)
One approach to this problem is to notice that, if we let f(x) = 1/x, this is precisely the definition of the derivative (EDIT: to be accurate, it's the derivative of 1/x at the point x = A). Therefore, we know the answer must be the derivative of 1/x. Another approach is to, as you indicated, use L'Hopital's Rule. Your post suggests there's a misunderstanding of what L'Hopital's rule says. You appear to have plugged in the value of x=A (taken the limit) and then taken the derivative. But that's not correct - you must take the derivative first. i.e.
\(\displaystyle \displaystyle \lim _{x\to A}\left(\dfrac{\frac{1}{x}-\frac{1}{A}}{x-A}\right)=\lim _{x\to A}\left(\frac{\frac{d}{dx}\left(\frac{1}{x}-\frac{1}{A}\right)}{\frac{d}{dx}\left(x-A\right)}\right)\)
The derivative of the sum of two functions is equal to the sum of the derivatives of those functions, so we can further simplify:
\(\displaystyle \displaystyle \lim _{x\to A}\left(\frac{\frac{d}{dx}\left(\frac{1}{x}\right)-\dfrac{d}{dx}\left(\frac{1}{A}\right)}{\frac{d}{dx}\left(x\right)-\frac{d}{dx}\left(A\right)}\right)\)
Now you try continuing from here.