Well, have a little more patience, with us and with yourself. All we have to go on is what you write. We don't have any way to KNOW who you are. Just answer our questions without assigning to them any value judgments. There is no reason to assume any "attitude".
The ONLY reason these problems look easy when I do them is that I have done several thousand in my lifetime, just like many other regulars here. There is no reason why you can't do the same, unless you give up. Practice, practice, and more practice.