"get snapped at" - No one is doing that. You are being encouraged to think. That is OK. It needn't be a bad experience.
"None of the other people on here do that" - Pretty much most of the time we all try to be as helpful as we can. Sometimes there are style problems. It happens. We should get past them and learn something anyway.
"make me feel like an idiot" - Here's where we have a problem. If you feel like an idiot, you may be choosing to do that on your own. I can't make you feel that way. It's your choice. Simplest solution? Stop choosing it.
"some people don't even try to do it themselves" - I have found you cooperative and I appreciate your efforts.
"everytime I post a question, you make me feel stupid." - There it is again. You have your personal agency. You do not have to feel any such way. Perhaps my language reminds you of someone who hated you when you were 5 years old and you remember only the words. Let's get past that. I have no malice. I have no ill will.
"but you don't learn about integrals" - It is a common deficiency in the education of many simply to forget what one knows already. There is a reason why undergraduate mathematics is taught in a relatively rigid sequence and courses list prerequisites. Keep it ALL in your head and it will be to your advantage. A few years ago, I had to go look up the definition of an Odd Function. I had forgotten. I remember now and it is to my advantage.
"How am I supposed to know to do that when we haven't been taught it yet?" - This is a GREAT question. Many have asked it. I have to wonder, whatever it is, who learned it first? SOMEONE learned it without being TAUGHT it. Whoever that was probably wasn't a whole lot smarter than you, if at all. They just THOUGHT about it longer or maybe they had a better background in related topics. I think just about everyone would be startled to learn what they could learn if they decided not to be so dependent on what they are TAUGHT. Your education is about LEARNING. Teaching is only one means to that end.
"you don't have to make me feel bad about it..." - Third time's the charm? Stop choosing to feel bad. Take responsibility for your own feelings and let's move on to learn some mathematics. Personally, I like honest math students who really are trying to learn, rather than just get by or pass the exam.