Have you ever used a graphing calculator to zoom in on a particular point of a graph? When you zoom in real close (that is, when you look at the curve over a tiny interval of x values), the curve appears to be a straight line. The slope of that line is very close to the slope of the tangent line.
One way to estimate the slope of the tangent line is to use the slope formula with values that you calculate.
For this exercise, pick any two x values that are very close to 3 -- one less than 3 and the other greater than 3.
For example, you could pick x1=2.99 and x2=3.01
Calculate the corresponding values for y1 and y2
Use the slope formula with your values for (x1,y1) and (x2,y2)
Questions about this? Work to show?