If two graphs are isomorphic if and only if the two are essentially the same graph.
There is a bijection between the vertex sets that is edge preserving. That is two vertices are adjacent is one graph if and only if their images are adjacent in the other graph.
Isomorphic graph have the same degree sequence: this is necessary but not sufficient.
If two graphs are isomorphic then their adjacency matrices are similar.
If two graphs are isomorphic then their complements are isomorphic.
It is this last case that I suggest you use to see that the graphs are not isomorphic. Because each of these “close” to complete. Therefore, looking at the complements, and ignoring isolated points, you will see one of the complements will have only one non-trivial component while the other has two.
If you do not know about complements: the complement of a graph G is a graph, G’, on the same of vertices and G’ has an edge if and only if that edge is not in G.