Let g = number of girls, b = number of boys.
Dorren, then, has g-1 sisters. She supposedly has the same number of sisters as brothers, and the number of brothers is the same as the number of boys. Therefore we obtain that g-1=b.
Next, Oscar has b-1 brothers and g sisters, right? So the number of Oscar's sisters is twice that of the number of brothers he has. So, g=2(b-1).
Now we have the equations:
#1) g-1=b
#2) g=2(b-1)
1 can be solved for g: g=b+1, so we have the revised equations:
#1) g=b+1
#2) g=2(b-1)
So, g=b+1 AND g=2(b-1), so b-1=2(b-1). (This is okay to do since they are both the same as g, and we know that g=g).
Now: (I'm not sure of your level of algebra so I took it step-by-step)..
b+1 = 2(b-1)
b +1 -1 = 2(b -1) 1 1 (subtract 1 from both sides)
b = 2(b-1)-1 (simplify the -1+1)
b = 2b - 2 - 1 (using the distributive property: 2(b-1) = 2*b - 2*1 = 2b-2)
b = 2b-3 (simplifying the -2+1)
b-b = 2b-3-b (subtracting b from both sides)
0 = b-3 (simplifying the b-b on the left and 2b-b on the right)
1 = b-3+3 (adding 3 to both sides)
b=3 (simplifying the -3+3)
Now, the number of boys is 3 (b=1)! And you know that g-1=3, so put in 3 for b:
g-1=b
g-1=3 (substitute in 3 for b)
g-1+1=3+1 (add 1 to both sides)
g=4 (simplifying both sides)
Thus, the total number of children is g+b or 4+3 =7.
Hope that helps,
-daon
(edited b/c of mistake found due to Denis' counter example

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