Hello, Eddie!
I too was looking for a pattern (years and years ago) and finally found one.
The problem was that the terms were not nicely ordered.
\(\displaystyle n\,=\,1:\;\;(a\,+\,b\,+\,c)^1\:=\:a\,+\,b\,+\,c\)
\(\displaystyle n\,=\,2:\;\;(a\,+\,b\,+\,c)^2\:=\:a^2\,+\,2ab\,+\,2ac\,+\,b^2\,+\,2bc\,+\,c^2\)
\(\displaystyle n\,=\,3:\;\;(a\,+\,b\,+\,c)^3\:=\:a^3\,+\,3a^2b\,+\,3ab^2\,+\,b^3\,+\,3b^2c\,+\,3bc^2\,+\,c^3\,+\,3a^2c\,+\,3ac^2\,+\,c^3\)
I labored to get them the terms into some logical order
\(\displaystyle \;\;\)and saw that a triangular array was involved.
[Ignore the dots ... they were used for spacing.]
For \(\displaystyle n\,=\,1:\;\;\begin{array}{cc} . & a & .\\ b & . & c\end{array}\)
For \(\displaystyle n\,=\,2:\;\;\begin{array}{ccc}. & . & a^2 & . & .\\ . & 2ab & . & 2ac & . \\ b^2 & . & 2bc & . & c^2\end{array}\)
For \(\displaystyle n\,=\,3:\;\;\begin{array}{cccc}. & . & . & a^3 & . & . & . \\ . & . & 3a^2b & . & 3a^2c & . & . \\ . & 3ab^2 & . & 6abc & . & 3ac^2 & .\\ b^3 & . & 3b^2c & . & 3bc^2 & . & c^3 \end{array}\)
If you "stack" these triangle, you get "Pascal's Tetrahedron".
\(\displaystyle \;\;\)Each coefficient is the sum of the three coefficients directly above it.